For years, I have lived by this simple mantra -
“See her, Like her, then go talk to her”

I have been teaching my students how to do exactly that and help them find the confidence to talk to the most beautiful girls. (Yes some of my students are now in fulfilling relationships with women of their choice.)

And hey, before you start thinking, that I am some kind of seduction artist that teaches men these magical lines that can make gorgeous women fall into their arms, then I would like to stop you right there.

I believe, every man is enough and all they lack is confidence and self-belief to attract the women of their dreams.

I help men find that inner confidence along with the social skills they need to be successful with women.

But, today, I am not here to paint myself as a star, I am not here to tell you that I am some kind of superhero that Is here to transform your love life.

Infact,

Today I am here to share a failure, a failure that completely shattered my ego as a top Dating Coach.

All my close friends know that I love going out and you can rarely find me at home, unless I am working on something.

I go out to meet people, work on my social skills and help my students feel more confident, charismatic and attract the girl of their dreams.

And then, lockdown happened...

And like all of you, I was stuck at home…

After about a week, I started getting messages from my students on how they can get more matches on Tinder and Bumble, and what should they say to the girl.

To be honest, I have never been a fan of these dating apps. I believe in the art of cold approach and I used to believe that you can’t really fully connect with a person on dating apps.

But then, I finally decided to give in and created my account on Bumble and Tinder.

I just selected some random photos, wrote a half cooked bio and I was ready to wake up with tons of matches.

And boom, reality hit the next morning,

The big daddy of the dating world, international dating coach, couldn’t even get a single match.

I said to myself, “probably the algorithm needs more time” and I went on a swipe right frenzy where I was constantly swiping right on all profiles. (This turned out to be the biggest mistake… more on that later)

And, guess what after three days… I finally got a notification “You got a new match”…

Victory at last, right?. No.

As soon as I opened the app, it was a profile of girl named Suchi, with display picture of five roses.

My first match on Tinder in lockdown, turned out to be a fake profile...

Now that I look back at it, I can probably laugh it off, but during that time, I was furious.

“Why can’t I make this work… there is something wrong with these apps”.

But some of my friends were getting consistent matches and were going on virtual dates, and I was getting frustrated.

Plus, my past clients, kept on texting me, asking me tips on how they can get more matches.

I was almost ready to declare...

“THESE APPS DON’T WORK IN INDIA”

Now, I had 2 options...

Either I could give up and focus on my regular cold approach training or dive down & figure out the world of online dating.

And,

What followed was one of the best month I ever had.

I started to work with the basics, took out my notepad and started writing some of the hard hitting truths I knew about the world of attraction.

And, it was clear for me, attraction works on VALUE.

So what the hell does value means?

Most men think, that to get a girl attracted, you need to have good looks, or you need to show off money.

This is completely untrue, and in fact, if you try to “show off” on dating apps, girls get that “Desperate Creepy Vibe” and immediately swipe left.

On apps like Tinder, Bumble or Hinge, the girls ‘attraction thermometer’ hits the right swipe zone, when she sees one or both of these two things -

A) You look like someone who is fun to be around.

B) You clearly state your intent and that matches what she is looking for.

This is what ‘Value’ is.

And, these two principles have been the pillars for my success on apps like Tinder, Bumble & Hinge.

Anyway, after that I went on a 3-day rampage...

This included going through my entire cloud and choosing the pictures that really screamed KSHITIJ SEHRAWAT.

I also called up one of my friends who is a top photographer and has his own production studio.

I also fired up my laptop, and wrote about 50 bios, all of which had a touch of my personality.

Looking back, I clearly went overboard, but I was on a mission and I wanted to ‘crack the code’ for online dating.

Finally, I saw a big uptick in matches. 

I started getting 3–5 matches daily...

In the next month, I had over 100+ matches. I probably found the time to text only 30 of them.

I had more matches than I can handle.

And, all of these were girls I really wanted to talk to and the interactions were incredibly interesting.

I am talking about my personal 9s and 10s, sliding into my DMs every single day.

I finally had every piece of the puzzle.

Here’s what we’ll be covering in the Maximize your Matches Program:

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See how average guys just like you, have created incredible success in the world of online dating and it is time for you to reap in the same success for you.

So Kshitij, how Much is it Going to Cost?